"The
ones who require the most amount of protection from the real world, and
are actually getting plenty of it, are the people who view the world
according only to the two extremes: right and wrong.
The world,
on its own, exists without our personal judgement. In fact it is more
balanced without humans exerting their influence over it. Animals hunt,
kill and feed, they get ill, old and they die. Everything exists in a state of balance that just exists as pure reality.
Human nature is actually much the same, we kill animals and plants for
food, we kill each other for territory and ideals, we get ill, get old
and we die. When we exert and impose on others what is right and wrong,
we fail to see the beautiful balance and adaptation each of us go
through to stay alive and sane. Sure, some of it is dysfunctional,
misguided, and just plain dumb, but is it ever right or wrong?
When we start imposing right or wrong on everything we start to fail to
are WHY these things are right/wrong. Those who start imposing often
start having problems even living up to their own judgment, and often
fail to recognise that they often repeat the same mistakes as the people
they judge do... Why is this so? It's because they deny recognition of
reality and are blind sided by their own flaws.
That is why
there is so much hate: each other only see the other's flaws but not
their own. Therefore they keep reflecting their own judgment on each
other.
These people, because they cannot handle reality, need
all the protection they can get, because if reality ever hits, their
worlds will crumble. It is much harder to love the gray than to
dichotomise everything. For our own good, we cannot allow ourselves to
reflect back the hate to people who judge us, but instead disarm them by
giving love back regardless, for through that you both protect them and
open them up.
We can all choose to accept reality and work
with it, or be forever protected, fearing and judging our very shadows.
It is a choice at the end of the day, and that is a beauty of life
regardless"
